I am not going to add commentary to this video. Just watch, and he will tell you what I’ve told many of you, many times.
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I am not going to add commentary to this video. Just watch, and he will tell you what I’ve told many of you, many times.
Thanks for visiting my blog.
This is something I’ve written on in the past, and I thought I would revisit the topic. Building courage is one of the most difficult skills to have in teaching the martial arts, and not many teachers have this ability. In fact, I would dare to say that not many teachers even realize the importance of developing this skill.
I believe that the average martial arts program only addresses the technical aspects of the martial arts: punches, kicks, self-defense, weapons, etc. But the deeper levels of the art involves those things you cannot touch; they are things that change the character, the behavior, the personality of the fighter. We want to affect more than simply the physical appearance of the student, but the way he acts and thinks. Building courage is one of the most important of those changes.
In many cases, courage is a by-product of good training. As a man (child or woman, I’m speaking in the general sense) sees his physical strength increase as well as his knowledge of fighting techniques, he will feel protected. “Protected” is the important word here, as the fear men feel is from their vulnerability–the lack of protection. When he feels like he cannot be hurt or is not in danger, he does not experience fear. But when he feels as if he is in danger or may be hurt, even the skilled fighter will experience fear. The secret to removing fear is to train our students until they feel as if they can defeat almost anyone you put in front of them. In other words, we need to see to it that our students are so well-trained that they believe that they are unbeatable. I do not want to waste so much time talking about how to accomplish this, as most of this blog is dedicated (as well as my book) to building a dominant fighter, so let’s talk about the fighter who still experiences fear although he is being properly trained.
So, the question–I believe–is why would a student still be afraid, although he is being trained? There are several areas that may not necessarily be covered by a good training program. I don’t believe they are at the fault of the teachers, as many systems simply do not address all the areas:
We do not want to overlook our student’s fears. When they do not face them, they will end up as martial artists who do not have the courage level of a warrior. When they are taught to deal with fear, they can then deal with almost all of their fears.
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Yeah, I admit it… sometimes I can be one.
But don’t you believe for a second that I’m an “internet warrior” who hides behind keyboards and will turn into a pussycat when you meet me in person. Everything I say here I would say to your face, so I guess that makes me an @55hole. But what would you have, a person who gives you their opinion? Or a liar?
Guys, you are supposed to be warriors. If your feelings get hurt so much that a man has to bite his tongue to spare you some hurt feelings or dignity, maybe you need to take up another hobby, like toenail painting or something. Hell, you already wear scarves and sarongs…
By the way, MORO Warriors… the wearing of silk by men is a big nono. No true bladed style goes blade to blade, even in drills. And safe sparring is how the real Masters developed and compared notes. Any Filipino master who tells you he was killing other masters when propogating his fighting style is pullling your leg.
No, wait… no sugar-coating…. He was lying to you.
Here’s another one: Every Filipino fighter you meet–whether you are American, Fil-Am, or another Filipino–is looking you up and down, and he thinks he can kick your ass.
Get over it.
So, I’ve got one more. About 99% of the time, people who are jerks to me online are nice and respectful in person. Funny how that works out.
So, FMA people who claim to fight “for keeps” on the street, break limbs and gouge eyes, and kick butts and take names, but they won’t engage in a light contact (or full-contact) match with us sissies is full of it too. Assholes.
Here’s the thing about the martial arts, especially Filipino martial arts. We all think we have a better way of combat. Not our own way, but a better way. This is what we all should be striving for, not to kiss and hold hands on facebook and take pictures for each other’s websites and promote each other to another degree Black Belt in seminars. No, we should be developing our styles and skills and getting together to see if those ideas we came up with are valid. Fighting is all about seeing if our method of fighting will stand up to the next guys. We should certainly be doing it. Is it such a crime to say it?
Of course not. Unless, of course, your thing is not fighting at all. Let’s call a spade a spade. Most of you are not really training for fighting! Most of you are rehearsing drills and choreographed fight scenes and fraternizing with buddies and classmates in the name of comraderie and brotherhood. You pat each other on the back pretending to be buddies, and exchange war stories about that time some jerk hit you on the hand in sinawali practice or invaded your websites by questioning the validity of your style out loud. Come on, ladies!
And no, not every disagreement has to end in “shut-up-or-come-down-and-I’ll-kick-your ass”. This is what children do. Want to kick somebody’s ass? Don’t invite them to your house to play, you show up at their doorstep. At least that’s how it’s done in the Filipino arts.
Oh, I forgot, I’m not a Master of the art. Fine. Then prove it.
Anyway, martial artists have to develop thick skin. We need this to learn how to Master ourselves, as many a so-called great man has been undone by his emotions. Mike Tyson was undone by Evander Holyfield in both fights. It wasn’t a great skill difference between them, and ole Mike could have pulled out at least a good chance by sticking to what he’s been training to do since the age of 12. But when he failed to control his anger, it screwed him. He lost his ability to move when he wanted to, he couldn’t think, and ultimately lost the fight because of his lack of composure.
Martial artists have to welcome conflict and learn to face it head-on. If some guy can get a rise out of you with words, how will you react when he jumps out of the shadows and knocks you over the head with a stick? He won’t announce himself, I can assure you. We practice defending ourselves by defending our way. We learn to develop the physical by mastering the emotional and psychological battle. A guy who says, “I don’t think your art works” should be met with either a counter argument, or an offer to test that theory. Not by a bunch of guys bragging about who’s ass you kicked when you were in high school. Unless somebody says, “you suck” or starts name calling, you are just letting someone’s counter opinion to what you do get under your skin and you’re supposed to be tougher than that.
Everytime you engage in combat, my friends, your opponent is trying to prove that he is a better fighter than you are. Get used to it. But the less you get in front of opponents, the easier it will be to unnerve you with words. That’s why it is said that a fighter cannot surpass the toughness of his emotions and his skin. Learn to debate without emotion and ill feelings. At least this way, you look like you can fight.
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You wouldn’t think martial artists needed instruction on how to use a heavy bag. After all, the only thing you need to know is to hit the bag with power and keep going until you’re out of gas, right?
Brother, you are soooo missing the boat. There are many advantages to training properly with a heavy bag, so let’s explore them, shall we?
You can use your imagination to incorporate your style’s skills with how they can be utilized on the bag. This way, you have more than just a sitting target, but something similar to having a moving opponent/training partner. There is a world of techniques you can do, but this should get you started to better training. Hope this article was helpful!
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Make the Opponent Chase You
The header of this article seems to contradict the title, doesn’t it?
Good. See, the smart fighter must do that, confuse the opponent. If you are too easy to read, you will be easy to defeat. We don’t want the opponent to believe that we will be easy to defeat (whether or not we really are inferior as fighters), because we don’t want to empower him. You would be surprised how much stronger a confident fighter will be, and how the same fighter will weaken if you can take away that confidence.
At the same time, you have an advantage in having an opponent think he is superior, when he isn’t.
You can take away the opponent’s confidence by hitting him harder and faster than he is hitting you. This will take away his aggression and put him on defense.
At the same time, if you can make him more aggressive, you can lure him into making fundamental mistakes–like underestimating you, or attacking so recklessly he neglects his own defensive protections.
Yes, more confusion…
You must confuse your opponent as often as possible. Allow him to gain momentum by baiting him into attacking you, then hit him with a powerful counter. Have him chase you, and then take advantage of his forward movement and make him run into a trap. Convince him that he is the inferior fighter by beating him to the punch, and then put him on the move. Force your opponent to move away from you, and then catch him while he is in motion. Start out fighting left foot forward, and then switch your feet once he settles into a rhythm. Attack more with your feet, and then close the distance and slide him a barrage of hand techniques and punches. Try to pull him into a grappling or clinching fight with you, and then when he attempts to put distance between you and get away, attack him with your feet and long range punching.
Bottom line… your opponent must never know what to expect. The moment he believes he has figured you out, you switch your tactics on him. Each time you switch tactics, range, rhythm, speed and timing, and power levels, he finds himself trapped and another notch is taken out of his energy and confidence level. By the time he realizes that he is being outsmarted (or not)–the fight should be over. Finish him.
This is one of those advanced-level things that is not easy to pull off, and takes a lot of wisdom and gaminess to execute. It is the favorite tactic of many old men that they use to defeat younger men. My good friend Billy Bryant used it to beat me many times. My grandfather used it to beat me right after I had placed high in international competition. Master (forgot the first name) Bae of Angeles City, Philippines (he was a Korean) used it to beat me when I was 19 and actively kickboxing… and he was easily in his 50s. I use this tactic now when I fight younger, more energetic men. But there is a catch:
You must understand many techniques, strategies and skills in order to use this method effectively, as using a style that is unfamiliar or inferior will still result in your failure. When you switch techniques, you must use techniques you are good at.
Younger men who are still in the process of developing their skill at certain strategies and tactics will find it difficult to “switch”, because the techniques are not ingrained well into them. Older men use it because we usually don’t have enough endurance to stick to one for very long (LOL!!), but also because we know how confusing it can be to have to change strategies in the midst of a fight. However, you can use this technique at any experience level. This is the fighting technique known by many as “Palit-Palit”, a classical Eskrima style that can be universally applied to any style of fighting.
Try it, perhaps with three techniques at a time, and do this for 3 months before switching to another 3 techniques. Good luck!
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I was reflecting on the dissatisfaction I am experiencing with the state of Filipino martial arts tournaments. There is no secret that I would like to see empty handed fighting divisions in FMA tournament. But I think our Eskrima tournaments can use an overhaul in the way the stick is applied in the sparring division (not to mention a complete BAN on Eskrima “kata”… I just don’t like them!) because one thing I do agree with many of our Eskrima brothers is that our tournaments simply aren’t “real enough” (are any tournaments short of death matches really real enough?). There are a few ways we can modify how our tournaments are arranged.
First, I believe that the weapons we simulate in tournaments should be judged and ruled as whatever those weapons are supposed to be. So in that case, I believe that a hit to the body should count for only 1/4 of a hit to the head or a hit to the forearm or hand. In Eskrima tournaments, we simply don’t award enough for hits to the hand, whereas the hand and forearm are perhaps some of the best targets for stickfighters and knife fighters alike. A hit to the head is something that shouldn’t be necessary to hit 25 – 50 times in order to win a match; three times should count as “game” to an automatic win.
Secondly, if there were bladed divisions, such as Bolo or thrusting sword divisions, we should use the Japanese style of “Ippon Kumite”, meaning that an unanswered, killing blow that is recognized by all judges would automatically count as a win. That would alleviate all the back and forth confusion/trading that modern Eskrima is known for. To be honest, when I competed in the Philippines, we always knew who was winning. When I watch the tournaments today, it is very difficult to score. I actually prefer the point system used by some of the Stockton Eskrima clubs to score their matches. However, I do miss the combination-style hitting that I train to use.
Lastly, focus should be on the landing of strong, clean blows that–in real combat–would incapacitate the opponent. If we did this, we could actually have challenging matches with not just our Eskrima sticks, but allow the use of other weapons, such as the spear, the staff, the knife, and even the Bayonet. (Yes, the Bayonet. Maybe some of you from the province forget that our old men taught this weapon as part of the Eskrima we studied. Some of us are actually embarassed by this weapon, as if the Bayonet made our systems look “country” and unsophisticated. Check out Big Stick Combat’s article on this weapon) Doing this will really raise the esteem and respect of our native arts in the minds of spectators and participants alike.
My inspiration: I read Darrin Cook’s article a few days ago on the bayonet, and thought about a Japanese weapon that is very similar to the Bayonet art I learned as a teenager, the Naginata. When I was a young man, I had the chance to spar with a young lady who had learned this weapon as a girl, and found that the techniques she taught me (after whipping me good) were identical to the Bayonet techniques I learned as a boy. When I searched youtube for something similar, I came across this clip (below) of a Naginata competition, and I realized that this is how I’d like to see the Filipino Martial Arts showcased–in a way that highlights its strengths and allows it to keep its dignity as a fighting art despite being a competition/spectator sport.
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There was once a Master of barehanded fighting, who was known for having 99 techniques in his system. He was very picky over who he would accept as a student, but–like all Masters–needed to eat, so he often took students. Although he accepted students when he would rather not have, he insisted that pupils started with the first technique, and earned the next successive technique through many grueling tests.
Students rarely held on past the 20th or so technique, but occasionally a student seemed promising and would make it to near 70 or 80. As the numbers neared 90, the tests became more challenging, and the Master demanded more and more from his student. Many years passed, and the Master was now in his 60s, never having any student make it all the way to the 90th technique. However, one student did everything right. He was now at 89, and the Master began talking to him about humility and service and patience.
The student was young, but diligent. His only fault was his ego. The student would work hard to improve his skill, but it seemed as if it were not so much to make his art better and earn the next technique–but to make himself look good, as this student liked to brag. The Master, knowing this, began to slow his pace of teaching, until he finally reached the 98th technique. At this point, the teacher stopped teaching… instead choosing to make his lessons lectures on character and philosophy. The student, having bested all the local champions and even some masters, began to show a lack of patience, and started to doubt the existence of a 99th technique.
One day, he approached his Master, and discussed leaving his teacher and starting his own school.
The Master insisted that the young man had much to learn, causing the student to smirk. The young man invited his teacher to test his skills. If he could not beat the young man, he should be free to go. If he was overmatched, the student would stay.
You should know what happened next… The student fought–and was defeated by–the 99th technique.
There are many lessons behind this popular story. But I will focus on its application for the teacher.
Not all of you will possess this kind of information, or some of you will develop your arts to this level. Learn how to treat your system; it will be preserved for generations. Fail to do it, and your art will fall by the way of splintered subgroups or even dissolve.
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